All too often, I feel like my relationships fall into a rut of essentially four activities - sex, hanging out talking, eating together, and watching movies. The first two are staples of any good relationship (substitute "get it on" for "sex" if you're not quite there yet, with no loss of generality) and should be both common and exceedingly enjoyable, but the last two are starting to bore the hell out of me. There's a huge world out there, yet I find myself defaulting to dinner and a movie time and time again. Going out to a get dinner, coffee, desert is a pretty good activity for conversation, but you can only be hungry for that stuff some of the time. So here's my question to all you readers out there - what fun stuff do you go out and do w/ your girlfriend? Something that breaks out of this rut, something fun yet out of the ordinary? Especially at night? I've been racking my brain for some ideas, hoping to spark others from those more creative than I
- hit the bars together (instead of getting dinner, get a pitcher)
- bowling (although I hate it when if she kicks my ass)
- clubbing (although I feel weird, honestly, but that's another issue)
- casinos (if you happen to have them near)
- outdoorsy stuff, hiking, camping, skiing, etc (although it generally doesn't work so well at night)
- board/puzzle games (I feel so old suggesting it, but boggle is damn fun)
Help!